Daily Devotionals

Bride and Gloom Week 1: Tuesday

Jesus replied, "You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind." Matthew 22:37

We human beings are highly relational people. We were meant to live in community and have deep, meaningful relationships with others. Our relationships with friends, family, those we are dating, and our spouses are rich and valuable. Still, we must not forget the most important relationship in our lives: our relationship with God. Our relationship with God is to be front and center. 

Jesus reminded a group of religious leaders that their relationship with God was more important than anything in Matthew 22. Some of the Pharisees and Sadducees of Jesus' day came to Him to trap Him into saying something against Scripture. They asked Him, "Which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses" (verse 36). This was a difficult question. Out of all of the commandments, how could anyone choose the most important commandment? Choosing one commandment might say that all of the others were not important. But, of course, Jesus had no problem answering this question. He answered the religious leaders, "You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind" (verse 37). This was the most important commandment for at least two reasons. First, it was important because God requires our complete devotion and commitment. Second, it was most important because if we love God with everything in us, we will obey all other commandments.

When it comes to our relationships, we must remember this most important commandment. None of our most important relationships here on this earth are more important than God. In fact, nothing is more important than Him. Therefore, the most important thing we can do in this life is to focus on our relationships with God and love Him with every part of our hearts, souls, minds, and strength. Whether married or single, we must focus on God over everything else. As we do this, He strengthens our relationships and takes care of everything else.

Moving toward action

Is there anything that has come in between your relationship with God? Has anything taken the place of God in your life that only He deserves? If so, acknowledge that area to God. Tell Him anything that has become more important than Him. Tell Him you are sorry, and commit to focusing on Him and your relationship with Him over everything else.

Going Deeper

Matthew 22:1-38 (NLT)

"Jesus also told them other parables. He said, 2 "The Kingdom of Heaven can be illustrated by the story of a king who prepared a great wedding feast for his son. 3 When the banquet was ready, he sent his servants to notify those who were invited. But they all refused to come!

4 "So he sent other servants to tell them, 'The feast has been prepared. The bulls and fattened cattle have been killed, and everything is ready. Come to the banquet!' 5 But the guests he had invited ignored them and went their own way, one to his farm, another to his business. 6 Others seized his messengers and insulted them and killed them.

7 "The king was furious, and he sent out his army to destroy the murderers and burn their town. 8 And he said to his servants, 'The wedding feast is ready, and the guests I invited aren't worthy of the honor. 9 Now go out to the street corners and invite everyone you see.' 10 So the servants brought in everyone they could find, good and bad alike, and the banquet hall was filled with guests.

11 "But when the king came in to meet the guests, he noticed a man who wasn't wearing the proper clothes for a wedding. 12 'Friend,' he asked, 'how is it that you are here without wedding clothes?' But the man had no reply. 13 Then the king said to his aides, 'Bind his hands and feet and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.'

14 "For many are called, but few are chosen."

15 Then the Pharisees met together to plot how to trap Jesus into saying something for which he could be arrested. 16 They sent some of their disciples, along with the supporters of Herod, to meet with him. "Teacher," they said, "we know how honest you are. You teach the way of God truthfully. You are impartial and don't play favorites. 17 Now tell us what you think about this: Is it right to pay taxes to Caesar or not?"

18 But Jesus knew their evil motives. "You hypocrites!" he said. "Why are you trying to trap me? 19 Here, show me the coin used for the tax." When they handed him a Roman coin, 20 he asked, "Whose picture and title are stamped on it?"

21 "Caesar's," they replied.

"Well, then," he said, "give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar, and give to God what belongs to God."

22 His reply amazed them, and they went away.

23 That same day Jesus was approached by some Sadducees-religious leaders who say there is no resurrection from the dead. They posed this question: 24 "Teacher, Moses said, 'If a man dies without children, his brother should marry the widow and have a child who will carry on the brother's name.' 25 Well, suppose there were seven brothers. The oldest one married and then died without children, so his brother married the widow. 26 But the second brother also died, and the third brother married her. This continued with all seven of them. 27 Last of all, the woman also died. 28 So tell us, whose wife will she be in the resurrection? For all seven were married to her."

29 Jesus replied, "Your mistake is that you don't know the Scriptures, and you don't know the power of God. 30 For when the dead rise, they will neither marry nor be given in marriage. In this respect they will be like the angels in heaven.

31 "But now, as to whether there will be a resurrection of the dead-haven't you ever read about this in the Scriptures? Long after Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had died, God said, 32 'I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.' So he is the God of the living, not the dead."

33 When the crowds heard him, they were astounded at his teaching.

34 But when the Pharisees heard that he had silenced the Sadducees with his reply, they met together to question him again. 35 One of them, an expert in religious law, tried to trap him with this question: 36 "Teacher, which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses?"

37 Jesus replied, "'You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.' 38 This is the first and greatest commandment."