Daily Devotionals

Mix Tape Week 5 Thursday

Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. Ecclesiastes 4:9

As I have observed different relationships over time and what has gone wrong, I have often found that conflict stems from a lack of communication. When we fail to communicate, confusion and conflict are bound to occur simply because of misunderstandings and unclear goals. This is particularly true when it comes to finances, especially in our marriages. The way we spend our finances ultimately does not just affect us. It affects our families and those closest to us. Because of these things, we must communicate about our finances.   

One of the reasons why we have to communicate is because Scripture teaches that we are not meant to live life alone. Ecclesiastes 4 makes this very clear. In this chapter, Solomon, the writer of Ecclesiastes, wrote, “two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed” (verse 9). This Scripture passage clarifies that when we work together and live in unity, we are stronger and more successful. Solomon continued in this chapter, giving examples as to why two people are better off than one. He said, “If one person falls, the other can reach out and help… two people lying close together can keep each other warm” and “a person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer” (verses 9-12). The Bible points to the power we have when we are united. 

Hopefully, Solomon’s wise words have convinced you that it is better when we do not try to live life on our own. As we think about our finances, we cannot truly live unified with our spouses and family members if we do not communicate. We have to be willing to communicate our spending and saving habits and financial goals if we want to be a unified front. So let’s follow this call from Scripture and commit not to live life alone, starting with our communication.

Moving Toward Action

Who has God placed in your life to live life alongside? Maybe it is your spouse or other family members. Are you communicating openly and honestly with them, or is there anything you are holding back? Are you continuing to live life on your own, at least in that area? If you are married, your challenge is to make every effort to communicate in all areas with your spouse, particularly when it comes to finances. If you are single, work through these goals yourselves in hopes of having your finances in order. A great place to start with this communication is to set some financial goals. If you haven’t done this yet, go to www.sagebrush.church/money.

Going Deeper

Ecclesiastes 4:1-16 (NLT)

Again, I observed all the oppression that takes place under the sun. I saw the tears of the oppressed, with no one to comfort them. The oppressors have great power, and their victims are helpless. So I concluded that the dead are better off than the living. But most fortunate of all are those who are not yet born. For they have not seen all the evil that is done under the sun.

Then I observed that most people are motivated to success because they envy their neighbors. But this, too, is meaningless—like chasing the wind.

“Fools fold their idle hands,

leading them to ruin.”

And yet,

“Better to have one handful with quietness

than two handfuls with hard work

and chasing the wind.”

I observed yet another example of something meaningless under the sun. This is the case of a man who is all alone, without a child or a brother, yet who works hard to gain as much wealth as he can. But then he asks himself, “Who am I working for? Why am I giving up so much pleasure now?” It is all so meaningless and depressing.

Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.

It is better to be a poor but wise youth than an old and foolish king who refuses all advice. Such a youth could rise from poverty and succeed. He might even become king, though he has been in prison. But then everyone rushes to the side of yet another youth who replaces him. Endless crowds stand around him, but then another generation grows up and rejects him, too. So it is all meaningless—like chasing the wind.