Small Group Studies

Queen of Hearts Week 2

When was a time someone asked you to do something that felt impossible? How did you respond? For me, I was tasked as a college student to navigate my college church group through the city of New York without any help. I am horrible with directions, so as you can imagine, I did not respond well. I did, however, take on the task and successfully navigate my group through the city. I learned a big lesson that day. I am capable of doing more than I think I am. While this is true, plenty of things are impossible for me, which is okay. While I am limited, nothing is impossible with God; sometimes, He even uses us to do what would be impossible on our own. Esther certainly saw this as God used her to save the lives of her Jewish people throughout Persia.

BREAK THE ICE

When is a time you did something you thought was impossible? What happened?

SMALL GROUP QUESTIONS

Bible Study Questions

 1. When is a time God did something in your life that seemed impossible?

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2. Read Esther 4:13-17. Summarize Mordechai’s message to Esther in these verses. How did Esther respond to Mordechai’s message? 

Esther 4:13-17

"Mordecai sent this reply to Esther: “Don’t think for a moment that because you’re in the palace you will escape when all other Jews are killed. 14 If you keep quiet at a time like this, deliverance and relief for the Jews will arise from some other place, but you and your relatives will die. Who knows if perhaps you were made queen for just such a time as this?”

15 Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: 16 “Go and gather together all the Jews of Susa and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. My maids and I will do the same. And then, though it is against the law, I will go in to see the king. If I must die, I must die.” 17 So Mordecai went away and did everything as Esther had ordered him."

3. Read Esther 7:7-10. How did Esther demonstrate courage in these verses?

Esther 7:7-10

"Then the king jumped to his feet in a rage and went out into the palace garden.

Haman, however, stayed behind to plead for his life with Queen Esther, for he knew that the king intended to kill him. 8 In despair he fell on the couch where Queen Esther was reclining, just as the king was returning from the palace garden.

The king exclaimed, “Will he even assault the queen right here in the palace, before my very eyes?” And as soon as the king spoke, his attendants covered Haman’s face, signaling his doom.

9 Then Harbona, one of the king’s eunuchs, said, “Haman has set up a sharpened pole that stands seventy-five feet tall in his own courtyard. He intended to use it to impale Mordecai, the man who saved the king from assassination.”

“Then impale Haman on it!” the king ordered. 10 So they impaled Haman on the pole he had set up for Mordecai, and the king’s anger subsided."

4. Read Esther 8:11-14 and 9:16-19. How did God do the impossible through Esther and her fellow Jews?

Esther 8:11-14

"The king’s decree gave the Jews in every city authority to unite to defend their lives. They were allowed to kill, slaughter, and annihilate anyone of any nationality or province who might attack them or their children and wives, and to take the property of their enemies. 12 The day chosen for this event throughout all the provinces of King Xerxes was March 7 of the next year.

13 A copy of this decree was to be issued as law in every province and proclaimed to all peoples, so that the Jews would be ready to take revenge on their enemies on the appointed day. 14 So urged on by the king’s command, the messengers rode out swiftly on fast horses bred for the king’s service. The same decree was also proclaimed in the fortress of Susa."

Esther 9:16-19

"Meanwhile, the other Jews throughout the king’s provinces had gathered together to defend their lives. They gained relief from all their enemies, killing 75,000 of those who hated them. But they did not take any plunder. 17 This was done throughout the provinces on March 7, and on March 8 they rested, celebrating their victory with a day of feasting and gladness. 18 (The Jews at Susa killed their enemies on March 7 and again on March 8, then rested on March 9, making that their day of feasting and gladness.) 19 So to this day, rural Jews living in remote villages celebrate an annual festival and holiday on the appointed day in late winter, when they rejoice and send gifts of food to each other."

Application

1. What is something that seems impossible that God has called you to do?

2. What is a step that you can take towards doing that thing that seems impossible?

3. How has God uniquely equipped you to take those steps to do that impossible thing?

MOVING FORWARD

Take a few minutes to work through the following questions below. Then, think about one way you can make a difference when it comes to the things that break your heart and fires you up so that you can have an impact for the kingdom of God. Each group member should answer these questions individually.

1. What breaks your heart?
2. What gets you excited? What fires you up that you could do for the kingdom of God?
3. What makes you angry? You look around and say, “This is wrong. Something needs to be done.”
4. What is the difference that God wants to make in your life and in the life of others?

After reflecting, share with your group the thing that breaks your heart and fires you up and the step you can take to help in that area. After sharing, pray together for courage to take these steps and serve.

GOING DEEPER

The book of Esther never mentions God’s name, but His handiwork is seen throughout the book of Esther. Let’s spend the next few moments looking out for the ways God was working throughout the events that took place in the book of Esther. As we see God at work in Esther and the Jewish people’s lives, we will be reminded that God is at work in our lives every day, even though we may not realize it.

God was at work in Esther 2.

Thrust into the king’s court to compete with other young women to become the queen, Esther likely did not see her circumstances as God orchestrating everything behind the scenes, yet He was at work even still.

1. Read Esther 2:1-9. How do you see God at work in these verses?

Esther 2:1-9

"But after Xerxes’ anger had subsided, he began thinking about Vashti and what she had done and the decree he had made. 2 So his personal attendants suggested, “Let us search the empire to find beautiful young virgins for the king. 3 Let the king appoint agents in each province to bring these beautiful young women into the royal harem at the fortress of Susa. Hegai, the king’s eunuch in charge of the harem, will see that they are all given beauty treatments. 4 After that, the young woman who most pleases the king will be made queen instead of Vashti.” This advice was very appealing to the king, so he put the plan into effect.

5 At that time there was a Jewish man in the fortress of Susa whose name was Mordecai son of Jair. He was from the tribe of Benjamin and was a descendant of Kish and Shimei. 6 His family had been among those who, with King Jehoiachin of Judah, had been exiled from Jerusalem to Babylon by King Nebuchadnezzar. 7 This man had a very beautiful and lovely young cousin, Hadassah, who was also called Esther. When her father and mother died, Mordecai adopted her into his family and raised her as his own daughter.

8 As a result of the king’s decree, Esther, along with many other young women, was brought to the king’s harem at the fortress of Susa and placed in Hegai’s care. 9 Hegai was very impressed with Esther and treated her kindly. He quickly ordered a special menu for her and provided her with beauty treatments. He also assigned her seven maids specially chosen from the king’s palace, and he moved her and her maids into the best place in the harem."

2. Read Esther 2:16-20. In what ways was God at work in Esther and Mordecai’s lives?

Esther 2:16-20

"Esther was taken to King Xerxes at the royal palace in early winter of the seventh year of his reign. 17 And the king loved Esther more than any of the other young women. He was so delighted with her that he set the royal crown on her head and declared her queen instead of Vashti. 18 To celebrate the occasion, he gave a great banquet in Esther’s honor for all his nobles and officials, declaring a public holiday for the provinces and giving generous gifts to everyone.

19 Even after all the young women had been transferred to the second harem and Mordecai had become a palace official, 20 Esther continued to keep her family background and nationality a secret. She was still following Mordecai’s directions, just as she did when she lived in his home." 

God was at work in Esther 4.

Esther begins with Esther’s cousin, Mordecai, lamenting a decree ordered by the king that was detrimental to the Jewish people. The situation looked bleak, but Mordecai did not lose heart. Instead, he saw hope even in the bleakest of situations.

1. Read Esther 4:3-14. From an outside perspective, how did the situation look for the Jewish people?

Esther 4:3-14

"And as news of the king’s decree reached all the provinces, there was great mourning among the Jews. They fasted, wept, and wailed, and many people lay in burlap and ashes.

4 When Queen Esther’s maids and eunuchs came and told her about Mordecai, she was deeply distressed. She sent clothing to him to replace the burlap, but he refused it. 5 Then Esther sent for Hathach, one of the king’s eunuchs who had been appointed as her attendant. She ordered him to go to Mordecai and find out what was troubling him and why he was in mourning. 6 So Hathach went out to Mordecai in the square in front of the palace gate.

7 Mordecai told him the whole story, including the exact amount of money Haman had promised to pay into the royal treasury for the destruction of the Jews. 8 Mordecai gave Hathach a copy of the decree issued in Susa that called for the death of all Jews. He asked Hathach to show it to Esther and explain the situation to her. He also asked Hathach to direct her to go to the king to beg for mercy and plead for her people. 9 So Hathach returned to Esther with Mordecai’s message.

10 Then Esther told Hathach to go back and relay this message to Mordecai: 11 “All the king’s officials and even the people in the provinces know that anyone who appears before the king in his inner court without being invited is doomed to die unless the king holds out his gold scepter. And the king has not called for me to come to him for thirty days.” 12 So Hathach gave Esther’s message to Mordecai.

13 Mordecai sent this reply to Esther: “Don’t think for a moment that because you’re in the palace you will escape when all other Jews are killed. 14 If you keep quiet at a time like this, deliverance and relief for the Jews will arise from some other place, but you and your relatives will die. Who knows if perhaps you were made queen for just such a time as this?”

2. What was at stake if Esther did not go to the king? What was at stake if she did go to the king? 

3. How was God at work in Esther 3, despite how it may have looked to many Jewish people?

God was at work in Esther 5 and 7.

1. Read Esther 5:1-3 and 7:3-8. What could have happened when Esther approached the king?

Esther 5:1-3

"On the third day of the fast, Esther put on her royal robes and entered the inner court of the palace, just across from the king’s hall. The king was sitting on his royal throne, facing the entrance. 2 When he saw Queen Esther standing there in the inner court, he welcomed her and held out the gold scepter to her. So Esther approached and touched the end of the scepter.

3 Then the king asked her, “What do you want, Queen Esther? What is your request? I will give it to you, even if it is half the kingdom!”

Esther 7:3-8

"Queen Esther replied, “If I have found favor with the king, and if it pleases the king to grant my request, I ask that my life and the lives of my people will be spared. 4 For my people and I have been sold to those who would kill, slaughter, and annihilate us. If we had merely been sold as slaves, I could remain quiet, for that would be too trivial a matter to warrant disturbing the king.”

5 “Who would do such a thing?” King Xerxes demanded. “Who would be so presumptuous as to touch you?”

6 Esther replied, “This wicked Haman is our adversary and our enemy.” Haman grew pale with fright before the king and queen. 7 Then the king jumped to his feet in a rage and went out into the palace garden.

Haman, however, stayed behind to plead for his life with Queen Esther, for he knew that the king intended to kill him. 8 In despair he fell on the couch where Queen Esther was reclining, just as the king was returning from the palace garden.

The king exclaimed, “Will he even assault the queen right here in the palace, before my very eyes?” And as soon as the king spoke, his attendants covered Haman’s face, signaling his doom."

2. How was God’s hand at work in these passages of Scripture?

Reflect:

As you think back on Esther’s story, reflect on how God was at work through every twist and turn. Then, take a few moments to reflect on how God’s hand has been at work throughout your life, even when you did not see it.

1. What stands out most when you think about how God worked throughout Esther’s story?
2. Think for a moment about your own life. Name one way God’s hand was at work when you did not see it at the time.
3. We all need encouragement at times that God is working when we cannot see it. Who is someone you can encourage this week and point out to them one way you see God working in their lives? Share with your group who you will encourage, and make plans to reach out to them this week.

When you are finished reflecting, pray together. Thank God for the ways He works in our lives when we cannot see. Thank Him for the ways He has worked and will continue to work. Ask God to help you recognize where He is working and encourage others that He is working in their lives as well.

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For since the world began, no ear has heard and no eye has seen a God like you, who works for those who wait for him! Isaiah 64:4